5. Pride costs more than hunger, thirst, and cold.
I have been really thinking and praying about this one. Pride….. it is the ultimate downfall. Really it is….. the Bible even states it. Proverbs 16:18-19 describes pride as the beginning of destruction and a haunting fall. Pride will ultimately cost you everything. Could it be that pride will hurt you worse than starving or freezing to death? Could it be that Jefferson meant exactly what Proverbs 16: 18-19 describes?
So I asked a couple of high school students. Today’s youth will surprise you. I asked them “What did Jefferson mean when he said…..” One quickly stated that pride will take everything away from you. She went on to explain that it will consume you and haunt you. Wow, how profound. Kudos to her parents!!
Throughout time, we find ourselves daringly toying with pride. It can give you a false sense of ego and it can even put you on a path of vast destruction. Again, Proverbs 16 says it all.
In these hard times, hunger, thirst and cold will humble the best of us. It is so hard to make ends meet and the threat of losing your job is even becoming a reality to many of us. Just yesterday I overheard some ladies talking about losing their jobs. One lady’s reply was “I just wanted to get drunk and not think about it.” Another was concerned about getting the bills paid and wondering if there is going to be enough money to last the week.
My heart broke for them. I wanted to scream as loud as possible that things are going to be alright. My aunt recently was talking about her grandfather and the great depression. She said that he commented that he never understood why some of the rich now dirt poor people were killing themselves. He would chuckle and say, “the depression didn’t impact us. There was no change in our status….. we were just dirt poor and happy to be alive.”
Losing your home, your lifestyle, your material possessions will take a hard toll on any sense of pride a man or woman or any family may have. Perhaps we need to stop looking so inward and band together to support one another. It isn’t going to kill anyone to accept help or a hand out. Don’t allow pride and a false identity that is over during these economical trials to keep you from getting a full belly at the soup kitchen, or a warm night’s sleep in a shelter. Don’t allow pride to destruct you further. Praise God that those services are out there even if the conditions are worse than any run down motel.
If you are reading this and your financial situation is collapsing faster than you know what to do, I am praying for you. I pray that you find another job or the assistance you need to get a leg up. Even if it is to swallow your pride and move into your parent’s home. You will get through it. I pray you will.
Okay now if I have not depressed you enough, I want to talk to you out there that is feeling the crunch of the times but haven’t forclosed or lost everything. Pride clouds your perception on material things. There are those out there that take pride in knowing that their clothing came from the coveted designer’s line. There are those who take pride in their lavish homesteads and automobiles. Some of those are pridefully still making those purchases instead of changing their lifestyles to match their earnings or to match their losses. Living outside of your means because you are too proud to wear second hand even if it is designer clothing, or taking the bus instead of driving the newest “beamer,” is pride before the destruction. Taking a hard look at your means and living among it can cause such anxiety and pain to some Americans out there. Don’t believe me? There have been countless Oprah and Dr. Phil episodes talking about this. When the destruction hits and the fall is inevitable, is pride really going to save you? your home? your car? Is pride going to keep you from being honest with your family and friends? Is pride going to keep you from rethinking the spending? Is pride going to destroy you?
Take heed to TJ’s wise words, ” Pride costs more than hunger, thirst, and cold.”